Dreams involving intimacy, such as showering and kissing, often symbolize vulnerability and emotional exposure. In your dream, the act of showering together suggests a desire for closeness and connection with this person. The initial scare you felt could represent the unexpectedness of love and the fears that can accompany deep feelings, such as the fear of getting hurt or the relationship ending.
Your expression of fear about love indicates a level of anxiety regarding emotional intimacy and the potential for loss. It’s natural to have these concerns, especially at a young age when you may be navigating your feelings and relationships for the first time.
Consider reflecting on your feelings in waking life about love and relationships. Are there any fears or hesitations you have regarding your feelings for this person or love in general? Acknowledging these feelings can help you gain clarity and confidence in your emotional journey.