I'm truly sorry to hear about your loss. Dreams can often serve as a way for our minds to process grief and the emotions associated with it.

In your dream, being in the kitchen with your partner and family suggests a sense of warmth, comfort, and normalcy. Kitchens often symbolize nourishment and the heart of the home, indicating that you may be seeking solace in family connections during this difficult time. The presence of your partner in this setting could reflect your longing for their presence and the comfort of shared moments.

The confusion between reality and the dream could signify your struggle to reconcile the loss of your partner with your current reality. It’s common to feel disoriented after losing someone close, and this dream might be your subconscious grappling with those feelings.

Your question about whether your partner would want to know about their impending death could indicate your own feelings of helplessness and the desire for clarity in a situation that feels uncertain and painful. The fact that your partner answered affirmatively may symbolize your wish for a continued connection with them, even in spirit.

This dream may be encouraging you to express your feelings, seek support from your loved ones, and allow yourself to grieve, while also cherishing the memories and love you shared. It’s a gentle reminder that it’s okay to feel lost and that those feelings are a part of healing. If you feel comfortable, discussing these feelings with a trusted friend or counselor can also be beneficial.