Dreams about being kidnapped can often reflect feelings of being trapped or a loss of control in your waking life. In your case, the involvement of your ex-boyfriend’s father may symbolize unresolved feelings or conflicts related to that relationship or family dynamics. It could indicate a fear of being judged or controlled by others, especially those connected to your past.

Consider reflecting on your current feelings regarding relationships and family influences. Are there aspects of your past that you feel are still impacting you? This dream might be urging you to confront these feelings and assert your independence. It may be helpful to think about what boundaries you need to set in your life to feel more secure and empowered.