This dream seems to be rich with symbolism and emotional conflict. Dreaming that you are your father suggests a deep exploration of your relationship with him, possibly reflecting aspects of his personality that you have internalized or the values he instilled in you. Driving can symbolize your journey in life, and in this case, it may represent how you navigate your responsibilities and relationships.

The moment when your actual self appears and tries to harm your father’s figure might indicate a struggle between your current self and the expectations or burdens you feel from your upbringing. The phrase "I raised you so well, you ungrateful!" could point to feelings of frustration or disappointment — perhaps directed towards yourself or your father — reflecting a conflict between honoring your past and asserting your individuality.

This dream might be urging you to examine your feelings about your upbringing, your identity, and the expectations you place on yourself. It could be beneficial to reflect on what aspects of your father's influence you embrace and which ones you feel constrained by. Consider how you can honor your past while also carving out your own path. Engaging in open conversations with your father or seeking to understand your feelings more deeply might also provide clarity and healing.