Dreams involving interactions with children often symbolize aspects of yourself or your life that may be innocent or undeveloped. In your dream, the little girl shaking the table could represent something in your life that feels unstable or disruptive. Your frustration and subsequent lecturing might indicate that you are feeling overwhelmed or that you want to assert control in a situation that feels chaotic.

The presence of the girl's mother could symbolize authority or responsibility, suggesting that you might also be projecting your feelings of frustration onto others in your life. This could be a reflection of your need for order or your desire to guide those around you.

Consider reflecting on areas in your life where you feel a lack of control or where disruptions are affecting your peace. It might be helpful to address these feelings more constructively, allowing for patience and understanding rather than frustration.